Most of us grew up being told what we did wrong - not what we did right.
Dr. Edythe Denkin explains that we often treat our own children the way that we were treated - completing a destructive pattern that breeds resentment and misbehavior. By focusing on what you and your children are "doing right" - and finding positive ways to address the difficult situations every family encounters - you are helping to build your children's self-esteem, confidence, and are raising self-assured well-behaved children.
Dr. Denkin's soon to be published novel concerns the mystery of marriage, and the wisdom needed to bring romantic love- once lost - back into the relationship. Based on truth, this intricately layered story offers enlightenment and spiritual sustenance to guide Prince James and Princess Cinda towards self-evolvement as they attempt to survive the inherent problems of wealth, and power, woven within the many layers of marriage. Life becomes a garden to be weeded daily in order for true love to survive.
Satori, a Buddhist monk assists the reader to perceptually gain the knowledge needed for a strong and healthy marriage: making consciousness, integrity, and commitment to self a central theme. The added benefit of learning NOT to take each other's behavior personally is the match that relights the flame of love lost. The art of taking responsibility for learning how to enjoy the present changes ones life forever - from the beginning to the unpredictable conclusion.
How to Raise Well-Behaved, Secure, Confident Children - What do you do when your child is fresh, has a tantrum, won't listen to you or makes you so angry you could hit him or her? Dr. Denkin's child Discipline Booklet will help you to feel successful as you respond to your child's behavior and help correct bad habits.
By following the easy instructions in your Booklet for Parents, your children will want to create good behavior patterns - as long as they are asked to correct one thing at a time.
YOUR PLAN IS SIMPLE: BEHAVIOR, REWARD, CONSEQUENCE!
MOST IMPORTANT - FOLLOW THROUGH!
If problems persist please consult Dr. Denkin or your family counselor.
CREATING GOOD FROM BAD KIT -
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1. Booklet For Child
2. Booklet for Parents
3. Kid Coins (six)
4. Velveteen treasure bag - for children's coins.
5. Book, "Why Can't You Catch Me Being Good?"
KID COINS:
Kid Coins are used to "Create Good From Bad." tm. They stand for Rules, Rewards, & Consequences.
1. Rules.
In order to establish good behavior, children need rules - after all they've only been in this world a short time. As kids are concrete in their thinking, rules help them understand exactly what you want - just as a computer gives you the exact information you ask for.
Be careful what you say, and how you ask for what you want - because that is exactly what you will get. Children respond in feeling to your tone of voice, body language, and then your words. "Why Can't You Catch Me Being Good?" WILL HELP YOU PREVENT CHILD ABUSE. AS YOU BECOME AWARE OF WHAT FEELINGS YOUR CHILD TRIGGERS IN YOU, AND WHY YOU RESPOND AS YOU DO TO YOUR CHILD. YOUR NEW AWARENESS WILL PUT YOU IN A POSITION TO SUCCESSFULLY BEGIN THE PROCESS OF 'CREATING GOOD FROM BAD'tm. When your tone of voice and body language match your words, your child will feel loved and secure, AND WILL WANT TO LISTEN TO YOU.
2. Rewards
While you plan to "Create Good From Bad," and change a behavior, reward your child for working on the change - as it is excellent motivation. Please remember to work on one new behavior at a time, and continue to reward the new behavior for four weeks -as it takes time, and commitment for each of us to change habits. That is the purpose of the reward. At first your child will want to use this new behavior just to receive the reward. When you reward generously, four weeks later, your child's new behavior will become a habit. Then, together you and your child can decide the next behavior to work on correcting.
3. Consequences
Most children respond to rewards, but if your child says he does not want a reward, and will not work to change a behavior, accept that as your child's choice. But your child must then know there are consequences for not obeying the rule - which you state in advance - in writing, do follow through. Most children choose the reward.
YOUR PLAN IS SIMPLE: BEHAVIOR, REWARD, CONSEQUENCE!
MOST IMPORTANT - FOLLOW THROUGH!
If problems persist please consult Dr. Denkin or your family counselor.
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Edythe Denkin, Ph.D., a marriage and child specialist, teacher, coach,
and author has over 25 years experience in relationships. Her book, Why Can't You Catch Me Being Good? is considered a 'must read' by Dr. Harville Hendrix, best selling author of "Getting the Love You Want", et al.
Dr. Denkin’s powerful theory began when she noticed herself yelling at her own children exactly the way her mother had yelled at her. Eydie explains that "Most of us grew up being told what we did wrong - not what we did right. Being unaware, we often treat our own children the way that we were treated - completing a destructive pattern that causes resentment and misbehavior."
"By focusing on what you and children are 'doing right', and finding positive ways to address the difficult situations you encounter daily, you can BREAK ANY EARLY PATTERNING OF EMOTIONAL OR PHYSICAL ABUSE. "Why Can't You Catch Me Being Good?" gives you the power to develop a positive parenting style, build your child's self-esteem, and confidence. In the process you cannot help but build your own as well, and increase your enjoyable moments of parenting."
Edythe's upcoming novel on Marriage is considered a must read. She also developed the "Kid Power Coins TM" child discipline system to help raise well-behaved, secure, confident children.
Dr. Denkin shows how couples walk in their parents’ footsteps, and unconsciously recreate both emotionally healthy and unhealthy relationships. As each partner develops an awareness of how he/she reacts in the marriage, that makes all of the difference.
“Edy Denkin is the mother we wish we had grown up with, the best friend we always need, and an understanding wife. Throw in a Ph.D., a common sense approach to problems, some humor, and her innate warmth, and you can see why, when “Dr. Edy” talks, people listen.”
The Darien Times
Darien Connecticut
Thursday October 3, 2002
- Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., bestselling author of
Getting The Love You Want & co-author of Giving the Love That Heals
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